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I am like a Phoenix rising out of the ashes...

I'm like the Phoenix, rising out of the ashes (of divorce) to rebuild my life again without hesitation.

I'm in my 50's, but see age as only a number.

I came from a military family where being honest, having integrity, being loyal and direct (straight shooter) was and is important. I'm more than capable and competent to care for myself... I just want someone to share my life with. I am an empty nester with an adult child. I'm intelligent, have a sense of humor and well traveled (but who doesn't like to travel), and constantly expanding my own perspective on life.

What I am looking for... someone who complements me! I would prefer someone that is still in the military, has recently retired or closely affiliated that I can be a partner to. You should be able to share everything with me, from your hopes, your vision and your dreams, the good and the bad, to walking hand-in-hand working together toward making each other a better version of ourselves. If you are reaching out to grift money (in one form or another), don't darken my door -- you will not like what is in store for you.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height157 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyPolitics / Government
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleStaff Administrator/Officer Mgr/Emergency Manager


My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / bars, Drinking, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing video games, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryPaddle boarding, Wind surfing, rock climbing


Goal in lifeEnjoy Life and what it has to offer. I personally want PASSION in my life and what I do, I don't want just a best friend in my relationship, I had that -- I want more and I won't settle for less this time.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partner1) Above all else -- honesty. I want someone with intelligence that I can really talk to. 2) I want a partner that wants to meet me half way and doesn't expect me to be their mother (maid, cook, etc) -- you already have or had one of those -- and plus you should now at this age be self-sufficient. 3) If you have kids.. that is okay, I have one too -- they come first when the need arises. I don't expect to meet them (and vice versa) unless you think it is time. I'm also open to a relationship that will include having younger kids involved. 4) Power... what drives us -- they talk about Power Couples, if the energy between the two of us is right we both can feed from it and make our lives better together for the future. 5) Finally, want someone I can walk hand-in-hand with, show PDA with (for military -- I know sometimes it isn't appropriate) is spontaneous and adventurous. If you find that you fit into this picture... let's start building a frame together.
On the first date4 Scenarios...
1) Mini-Golf… it can tell you a lot about your date/partner... it breaks down all barriers between us (we can talk, banter, HAVE FUN, figure out each others moves under pressure). Ultimately, someone is defeated, but I believe we can both win in the end (a challenge goes out to my brave men and suitors out there: Show me what you would do to make winning possible in the end.)
2) A Romantic Walk and dinner afterward -- I'll leave the planning to you (surprise me)
3) Dinner and a Movie (or the other way around).
4) Or... completely surprise me (caveat... no vigorous hiking, running, climbing, etc.... remember, this is a first date -- I don't see that as being ROMANTIC)